Someone else can tell you and perhaps advise what would potentially be best for you but unless you have felt the truth for yourself and have had an experience that has left you transformed just accepting and acting on the advice will be meaningless and you will resent following the advice without going in and feeling from experience what is truly best for you in the moment.
You must be transformed. Otherwise you will get the lesson again and again.
You have to be touched by transformation for expansion.
Burn in the fire.
No real shift can occur unless you are burned by transformation.
There will be a day when you are centered in the fire and nothing will touch you. There will only be observation, decision, and action. Go in. Go into the fire. Any hurting is illusion. Resistance to any “evil” is unnecessary.